Do you decide to become confident or is there something you can do to cause it?

Yes – you DO decide to become more confident – and yes – you DO, do something to cause it!
Confidence, of course is the opposite, on the energetic frequency spectrum, to low-confidence, low self-esteem (depression).
The only requirement to achieve a higher level of confidence – and therefore achieve a higher degree of personal success (in anything you want) – is an open-mind!
Having a truly open-mind, being a free-thinker – is the most powerful gift you can ever have.
The problem is a free-mind is also the most difficult gift to obtain.
Virtually from birth you (and everyone) are indoctrinated into a ‘physical’ 3D world, which is apparently full of hate, and fear, and dog-eat-dog competition.
We are taught that the ONLY way to survive and prosper, in this mind-controlled world, is to put yourself first, often to the detriment of others.
The REAL world, the world of the free-thinker, is totally different to this.
It is full of love, and joy, and limitless possibilities. It is a world where putting others first is the ONLY way to prosper.
A brotherhood of mankind, where everyone helps each other. Where all disease and ill health (including low self-esteem / depression) are treated easily and efficiently.
And a world that offers personal success, a high degree of personal success, in any chosen field, to everyone who really wants it.
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